Soft swinging? The sex list

After only a few days of blogging it’s great to see that we’re getting a few visits and likes – a little pang of excitement catches us when we get a notification or email 🙂 Hopefully our visits and likes will continue to grow!
So something that’s been pretty evident since dating is the paranoia we get, although it seems to be lessening as the weeks go on. Is this normal? We think so – it’s not the dangerous jealous-like paranoia (eg, “is the other cheating or chatting to others”), but more of a paranoia that something will get in the way of this perfect relationship we have. We’re sure there won’t be…
We’ve found, and this may be related to the paranoia and a way of facing our fears, is that we both get turned on massively by thought of the other having sex with someone else. Maybe it’s a case of imagining the other sexually from a distance or we’re subconsciously into swinging? Who knows?! One day we could find out.
Which brings us onto ‘the list’. It started out with a few ‘nice to try’ ideas and has somewhat escalated. Things that neither of us have ever considered now seem like possibilities, and we will certainly be trying some of them in the coming weeks/months/years. It is just a collection of thoughts at these stage, some may be impractical and others very unlikely. So far we have (we will both be present at all times in every scenario)….

Climax with no touching (can we reach orgasm without touching the key areas?)
Sex in the sea
Outdoor sex
Tantric sex
In a mirror room
Oral after cumming
Filming one of us masturbating and then watching it together
Filming us having sex then watching it
Watching another couple have sex
Another couple watching us have sex
Masturbation party – mixed or all of one sex
Watching the other have sex with someone else
Sex party – multiple partners
Watching the other watching porn
Messy – chocolate and whipped cream (tasty!)
Is there anything we’ve missed? (Anything involving pain/domination/dressing up/anal is not for us).
Any suggestions for us to add?

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